I was going through some of my old valentine day cards from
my husband and a phrase seemed prominent in them all; forever in my heart. Now I’m not sure if this is in most of them
or if that’s a message that my husband wants to convey in the cards he chooses
for me. My husband picks the best cards
for all occasions. I often read them and
the description of the person inside often causes me to ask if he really means
that for me.
This year will be the first time since our marriage over 15
years ago that we’d be apart on Valentine’s Day. Being the great guy he is, he
already bought my card and candy. While
I was cleaning him up in the hospital, he stops me to say how much he
appreciates all I’ve done for him, especially those things he couldn’t do
himself. Very seriously and in a rare
tone, he said he loves me. I tell him,
no problem, it’s all my pleasure. Then as I read those cards later, I knew what
he meant; I’m forever in his heart.
One thing I’ve learned in life is the best place to be is in
the heart of a good person; for a woman, a good man. It goes beyond the candy and remembering the
man made holidays. Being in the heart of
a good man causes them to go beyond the norm to provide and protect you. Their never ending joy is to see you happy. I think how he went to work in pain and
endured the pressures of life to make a better life for his family.
How did I get in his heart; by being myself, and being in
God’s favor. He chose me and I had to accept that choice. Women can’t chose the man and make him want
them. My husband tells me that when the
hen chases a rooster on the farm, she ends up in the pot; but that’s another
story altogether. Everyone is not suited
for everybody, it must be compatibility. In turn, I recognized his goodness and
wanting to do those things that pleased me, so I did what I thought pleased him
before he asked. I had to mend some of
my ways; see I was divorced for 17 years before we married and I had picked up
some habits. I listened and was attentive to his ways and moods; I did those
things that protected and helped him and the family name.
Oddly enough, this is a mirror image of my relationship with
God. He chose me and loves me beyond
measure and goes to every end to prove His love. He died on the cross to show I was forever in
his heart. I read His Word to learn what
pleases Him then I do those things. I
show my appreciation by saying thank you and I love you. He shows is love by allowing the sun, moon,
stars and rainbow to brighten my world.
When God wants to whisper to me He speaks through His Spirit that’s
inside my soul; it quickens me.
So even though I won’t be celebrating the traditional
valentine’s day with my husband, his love has made and everlasting impression
on my life and heart. You see, he died 3
days later. The card he gave said that he
found it an honor to love me. I find it
an honor to have a man of his caliber to love me. More important, we have a God that has us in
his heart and joined us together forever.
Have you found your place in the heart of God? Make a note to daily show your appreciation
and gratitude to your loved ones every day. But in
all those you love and adore on this Valentine ’s Day, and beyond, remember to keep
them and God forever in your heart.